Friday, October 31, 2014

A deadlock

Whenever you are stuck on a deadlock, 
try to search a way out
If you can't find one, 
crash the wall then make your own door. 
There is no rule 
in the battle against yourself.

The maze is only exist in your perception. Free your mind from the knot.

Saturday, October 25, 2014

Mbek's Wedding Day

Today is my best friend's wedding, Friska a.k.a mbek. I've known her since I was eleven and we were classmates for 6 years. Thanks God we still have a good friendship until now. She is a midwifery and now is a lecturer in one of health schools in our town. She is cheerful and friendly. That's why she has a lot of friends. 

Get married is a dream of every girl in this planet and get married with a balinese christian man is what she has been wished for her entire life. God listens, gives his bless today, and brings her dream into a reality.

Happy wedding my dear...
May happiness around your marriage..


The groom and the bride


What a romantic wedding!


Let's selfie!

Monday, October 20, 2014

Eat Well, Seminyak, Bali

Me and my boyfriend enjoy culinary so much. Since today is his birthday, we decided to celebrate it at a restaurant named Eat Well. The resto is located in Seminyak, Kuta.


Eat Well, Seminyak

Me and the butter rice and the chocolate ice

My boyfriend!
We order butter rice, pork steak with honey, chicken steak, lime juice and chocolate ice. We both like the food. They are just perfect for our tongues! I will give score 4 out of 5 for them. Really want to go there next time with my whole family or best friends.

These are some delicious pictures from me to make you drool!


Chicken Steak and French Fries - Eat Well, Bali


Pork Steak with Honey and Mashed Potato - Eat Well, Bali

Happy Birthday, dear Omenk!

Today is October 20th and today is the birthday of my special one!


I had a plan to congratulate him at 12.00 am, but then my alarm didn't ring and I just fell asleep until the morning. I know it later that my alarm was set at 12.00 pm. Stupid me!

To celebrate his birthday, I ordered cupcakes that were specially designed for him. I chose his most favorite football club as the theme. He likes Manchester United so much! He is also a huge fan of Vespa. That's why I decided to buy a glow-in-the dark bedcover with vespa pattern on it. I bought the bed cover about 2 months ago and wrapped it up last month. I'm the kind of prepared and perfectionist-girl so I can get panic easily if I have nothing to prepare beforehand. You can see our moments on his birthday below!

Special cupcakes for my special one. He loves Manchester United so much!

I hope you like it

Wrapped by myself, kinda proud!

The birthday boy and his gift




What's inside the gift?

Look at his mouth! His expression everytime he is focused on a thing.


"I'm too busy to open the wrapping paper. No time for taking picture!", he said.

So excited to open his birthday present!


Up left corner: birthday cake from his friends; the rest are from me! :)

Wednesday, October 15, 2014

Tu Mas & Tu Alit's Wedding - Reception

HOWREEYY!

Setelah tanggal 12 yang lalu suasana haru berlinang air mata, akhirnya tiba juga puncak acara pesta pernikahan Tu Mas dan Tu Alit, yaitu RESEPSI! Kedua mempelai cantik dan ganteng, orang tua terlihat sumringah bahagia, pestanya meriah, dan tamu yang datang rameeeeee....! Semoga bahagia dan langgeng sampai maut memisahkan ya Tum-tum dan Tu Alit!  

Here are some pictures I've taken at the party. Enjoy!

Me and the bride :)

Lovely, isn't it?

Winda (my bestfriend), 8 months old Randy (her son), and my self!

And here some pictures after the party...

Narcism after the party (at my house)

Our turn will come soon......

What????
Cute!

Sunday, October 12, 2014

Tu Mas & Tu Alit's Wedding - Upacara Mepamit

Hari ini adalah hari bersejarah untuk seorang sahabat yang begitu saya sayang. Teman sebangku selama 3 tahun di SMA. Sahabat yang selalu setia menemani walaupun yang ditemani jarang banget ada di kelas. Sahabat yang tak pernah lelah mendengar keluh kesah dan menjadi sandaran. Sahabat yang sangat bijaksana. Sahabat yang selalu ada. 
(Mulai keluar air mata saat ngetik ini...)

Upacara Mepamit
Akhirnya setelah bertahun-tahun pacaran, melewati masa-masa bahagia, gundah gulana, galau dan sebagainya, tiba juga hari yang ditunggu-tunggu. Hari ini mempelai wanita berpamitan dengan kedua orang tuanya. Mempelai pria berserta dengan keluarga berbondong-bondong datang ke rumah mempelai wanita untuk menjemputnya dan mengajaknya ke rumah mempelai pria. Sang mempelai pria meminta ijin dan restu dari kedua orang tua mempelai wanita untuk "mengambil" anak wanitanya. Di saat-saat seperti inilah para mempelai wanita Bali merasa sangat sedih bercampur bahagia. Sedih karena ia "meninggalkan" orang tuanya. Namun juga bahagia karena ia akan bersatu dengan lelaki pujaannya. 

Setiap wanita Bali akan mengalami prosesi ini. Beberapa sahabat yang sudah melaluinya, mengatakan bahwa mereka menangis semalaman pada saat malam pertama mereka di rumah sang mempelai pria. Ada kesedihan meninggalkan kedua orang tua. Tapi tentu saja ada kebahagian di hari-hari berikutnya. Air mata pada saat prosesi mepamit adalah luapan perasaan terima kasih kepada orang tua yang sudah menyayangi serta mendidik dan dengan ikhlas melepas anaknya untuk menuju tahap berikut di dalam kehidupan. Pesan singkat yang bisa diambil adalah sayangi orang tuamu selagi sempat dan belum terlambat!


Siap mengantar Tu Mas menuju rumah Tu Alit

Ki-Ka: Ega(akan menikah akhir oktober) - Tu Mas (mempelai wanita) - Saya!
Semoga yang baju hijau segera menyusul. Hehehe.

Di balik kain itu, sang mempelai wanita menangis sedih bercampur bahagia.

Mempelai pria (Tu Alit)

Prosesi megayot Tu Mas dan Tu Alit

video
 Video saat prosesi megayot. Sorry for the bad quality of video. 
It's taken with my Iphone5.

"Happy Wedding Day, my dear best friend Tu Mas. Bahagia selalu dengan Tu Alit. Semoga diberikan keturunan yang suputra dan suputri. Dan rumah tangganya senantiasa dilindungi Hyang Widhi. Astungkara."

Monday, October 6, 2014

Warung Jeruk Manis, Bali

12.00. Time to LUNCH!

Today I spend my lunch with my one and only boyfriend at Warung Jeruk Manis or Warung Jerman, Renon. 

My menu is Tipat Campur Ayam and Es Daluman. Just like another Balinese food, Tipat Campur Ayam is riched of spices and very spicy for me. I just can't stop drinking. Meanwhile, its Es Daluman is tasteless. I cannot taste the sweteness of brown sugar. My rate for the food is 2 out of 5.

Tipat Campur Ayam
Image by Onna Nayaka

Tipat Campur Ayam
Image by Onna Nayaka


Es Daluman
Image by Onna Nayaka

Renungan di suatu senin.

"Terkadang hidup membawamu pada suatu titik, dimana kamu mengerti bahwa tidak semuanya dapat kamu miliki. Ada mimpi yang harus mati dan dikubur dalam-dalam demi terwujudnya mimpi-mimpi yang lain."

Kamu tersadar dan terhentak karena ternyata kekecewaan hanya menyeret dirimu dalam keterpurukan.  Di saat yang bersamaan kamu tak sadar bahwa pikiran-pikiranmu sendiri lah yang menorehkan luka di hatimu. Kamu tak kunjung menemukan obat mujarab, kemudian menyerah, lalu pasrah.

Pada akhirnya kamu meyakini bahwa Tuhan sedang mempersiapkan sesuatu yang lebih indah untukmu. Bahwa Tuhan sedang menuliskan skenario dan tugasmu hanya memainkan peranmu dengan sebaik mungkin.

Ah, sudahlah berpikir sederhana saja. Apa yang kita inginkan, belum tentu apa yang kita butuhkan. Karena apa yang kita inginkan mungkin saja bukan yang seharusnya menjadi milik kita. Ia akan kembali ke tempat ia seharusnya berada. 

Apa yang sudah ditakdirkan untuk kita, akan menjadi milik kita sekeras apapun kita menolak atau sekuat apapun orang lain menghambat. Kamu, aku, kita, kalian, hanya tinggal yakin dan percaya.

Sunday, October 5, 2014

Sunday Afternoon

I love the beach.
I love the sand.
I love the sunset.
I love the sound of the waves.

I love how we spend our sunday afternoon. 
I love walking along the beach with you, barefoot and holding hands.
I love eating those springrolls and laughing because we have a different appetite.
I love the fact that I've found someone who I want to spend the rest of my life with.

I love it, our lovely sunday afternoon. 


Photo by Onna Nayaka